Today a man said to me, “My wife doesn’t like me to be like I was when she married me. She is always trying to remake me.”
There are lots of people that way. They married “for better or for worse” but they didn’t realize how bad that worse would be. When they find out, they immediately set out to remodel their mate.
This man didn’t like that. Few people do. Change has to come from the inside. It cannot be superimposed by someone else and we usually resent their trying. If you are having this problem in your marriage, remember these three things:
1. We have no right to marry with the intent of changing our partner. After all, it took them a lifetime to develop into what they are. It is neither right nor re...